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Sensate Focus Part 2

Getting started with sensate focus Agree which partner will be giving and which will be receiving to start with. Set aside time to do the exercise. Make sure you switch off the phones or prevent other interruptions. When you are … Continue reading

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What is delayed ejaculation?

What Is Delayed Ejaculation ? In delayed or retarded ejaculation, no matter how long the man thrusts in the vagina or has his penis stimulated in any other way by a partner he cannot reach orgasm and ejaculation. (If he … Continue reading

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Premature Ejaculation

The Effects Of Premature Ejaculation On Men and Women Mariano Sotomayor from the National University of Mexico has considered how premature ejaculation affects men who experience it. He observes that premature ejaculation is under-detected and under-treated, while men who have … Continue reading

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Sensate Focus

Sensate Focus Part 1 Sensate Focus is one of the main techniques used to cure sexual problems without using medication. It is a gentle way to improve a couple’s sensuality and spontaneity whether they experience sexual difficulties or not. Sensate … Continue reading

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CBT for PE

CBT treatments for PE can be very effective Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) teaches a man how to persist longer in bed by making him aware of his level of arousal and giving him the ability to control the rate at … Continue reading

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Coming Down From Extended Orgasm

Bringing Your Partner Down You’ve had plenty of information on the previous pages about how to bring your partner to a wonderful extended orgasm. However, it is also very important to know how to bring them down from the ecstasy … Continue reading

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The complexity of sexual pleasure (and extended orgasm)

Abraham Maslow wrote (in The Farther Reaches of Human Nature), “If we want to answer the question how tall can the human species grow, then obviously it is well to pick out the ones who are already tallest and study … Continue reading

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Dominance and Submission

Dominance and submission It’s important when you’re pleasuring somebody to follow your instincts, because they’re likely to be correct. For example, if somebody wishes you to continue touching them, but you think that they’ve had enough, you can stop. One … Continue reading

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Extended Orgasm – Training From Effect 2

Acknowledgement and encouragement allow you both to develop motivation to keep your mind on the process, and by communicating as it proceeds, you can ensure that both of you surrender your control, and the person being pleasure surrenders their nervous … Continue reading

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Extended Orgasm – Training From Effect (1)

Training from Effect One of the keys to success in extended orgasm is being able to communicate effectively with your partner. There is a simple straightforward way in which you can do this. It’s a system that also works in … Continue reading

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Peaking – The Art Of Extended Orgasm

Men and Women, Sex and Orgasm Peaking Video available only on Youtube As you may have realized by now, the main way men know to make a woman orgasm is called climax peaking. It’s basically a way of maintaining arousal … Continue reading

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Controlling Premature Ejaculation

I have seen many explanations of premature ejaculation in my time as a sex therapist, but never any explanation which relates to the concept of archetypal energies. We see the Lover as the archetype which determines how a man or … Continue reading

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Pleasuring a novice

Pleasuring a Novice Suppose you are working with somebody who has not experienced extended orgasm before. You need to start by asking them questions – almost interviewing them, in fact – to find out as much as you can about … Continue reading

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Sex Therapy

Sex Therapy In comparison to the frequency of failure in sexual functioning and the great amount of distress it causes, the number of specialist sex therapists is incredibly low. The majority of people with such problems still turn to doctors … Continue reading

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Male Sexual Response

Male Sexual Response In their pioneering work Human Sexual Response, Masters and Johnson described the physiological changes a man goes through during sex in terms of a sexual response cycle arbitrarily divided into four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. … Continue reading

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Manifestation and Law Of Attraction

If you have a look at  www.happywellandrich.com  you will see a great explanation of the law of attraction. The law of attraction is a wonderful process which has been known for generations. You might wonder how it can work, particularly … Continue reading

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